HOUSE OF MORR

This new year is just the right time for your wardrobe to visit the "rehab". If you tend to wear alittle too much of thesame colours and styles, its time you explore other alternatives in the world of fashion. However getting more organise is among the new years resolutions, yes it is time you treat thoes clothes, undees, shoes with sum respect i don't wanna be seeing them everywhere but the wardrobe does "babies" spend their whole life making you look good and thats how you say thank you? who does that? So begin by organising your closet as one of your new year style resolution .Make this year your most stylish with our picks for the top fashion resolution to make in 2017.OK let's see what's in stock for us;



Clean out your closet. This is one of the ways to treat your clothes like the gold that they are instead of keeping them every where it would be nice sorting out the ones needed and doing away with the ones you barely wear or don't have need for either by giving it out to family and friends, or better to the less privilege out there, which ever you prefer. When you do these it will be "ABC" putting your outfit together, more rooms for fresh ones to get in and getting ready for an outing becomes much more easier and fun!

Hey! is new year right? and everybody be on that new year resolution thing which is awesome but it's a shame how people think that the essence of it has been washed out and now they say its high time they abolish it(some people just take laws in their hands) who does that? (You don't have to answer that) now am not a fan of posting every lil hitch 'm up to on social media like the "new year new me" hitch "deleting fake friends is my new year plan" and the lots.......when i see stuff like that i see sheer ignorance i tell you but that doesn't make me hate on "new year resolution" and say "i think we should kill her, she for know good"( that will be the height of ignorance on my own part) it's just like me hating on Adekunle Gold for no reason but because padora won't stop over emphasizing on him being cute, how he's the prince charming, the man to work her down the aisle and bla..bla..bla...bla...(girls and fantasies is something else) but that doesn't  change the fact that he's an amazing talent, currently the best  at the moment of the proclaim  indigenous new school afro pop act.
 


Whats the sermon about? Simple, when the new year resolution  refuses to budge in for you or better still has been misused over and over again and it makes you want to puke the solution won't be condemning  and giving up but finding out why it's not functioning or why it seems impossible to get through with it. In this post i will be evaluating some of the causes of unfulfilled resolution and of cause some suggestion to get through that fog courtesy of the good book, personal experiences, some incredible books and of cause the amazing teachings of great counselors. I would start by rephrasing Bill Gate from one of his audio books  ;

 



"each of us is engineered for success in that we are built as a result of billion years of evolution we have a minds that is complex and wonderful that it can do things that no human computer will ever be able to do and we are engineered to achieve great success with our life's  however we are programmed for failure................It's more like we 've got a success mechanism and failure mechanism built into us. The failure mechanism goes off automatically and continuously but the success mechanism is triggered by a goal" 



 


which implies that without "goals" we are like auto mobile's with no steering wheel controlled by external wind of peer group, societal norm, pop culture with an inevitable end point of destruction,depression, unfulfillment and all the "jara" that comes with the baggage. Owk lets see what we have here;


Setting unrealistic goals.
This is one of the basic reason why the new year resolution is tom cruise impossible like the analogy of a kid trying to bite more than he can chew. Unrealistic goals will definitely take you no where, with your mouth full with goals with no room for your tooth to do the work not only will it be tiring and frustrating but it's also discouraging. I suggest like I've always done, you set goals within your strength and capacity for it's not how far but how well. So take your time its your goal, your turf after all and no one else.


 

Talking too much and doing less
i think this is where people get vexed with the new year resolution. This is when you do more of Eddie Murphy and less of Jason Statham. You have to understand that life doesn't give you what you deserve  but what you demand and the only thing that works is hard work and not mouth work. one thing  that i've learned over the years, is to ensure that every day i take at-least a step towards my goal and that has kept me moving and i'm sure it would work for you.





 
they are just goals
As hard as this may sound they are just goals when they are not accomplished they failed not you but its better than not trying at all. i've got alot of goals which i shifted upfront when i couldn't meet up. Guess what i found out? i found out somehow effortlessly i strike it out as a done deal. Think of yourself as one of those football team let's say Chelsea, what happens when they loss out to other teams? Do they just quit and say we ain't gonna play no more? absolutely not! they go back to their drawing board probably change their formation, fill in their lapses and then give it one more try. 


                                
 

its not by your power.
I hate to break this to you but this is for real. I don't care if you're Hercules or a mix breed of the expendables its just not your power.  you've got to understand that we're in a battlefield and our adversaries are on "ghost mode" and that understanding alone is key to fulfilling all types of goals( vision, purpose, et al). I hope you're not surprise? Why do you think when ever we've made a decision to do something pivotal to our growth, all of sudden its like the world is against us?..........let me drive it home with this " if God ain't in it you're just gonna be moving in circles".





                                                       xOXOx!


oh! less i forget keep your question, suggestion, comment and all of it coming in lets relate. whats your take on New Year Resolution........

Ladies fail to understand that it takes more than a liptick touch to give a perfect look on the lips. So here are the few Guidelines to a perfect lipstick

1. Make sure your foundation is well even and blended well with a powder of your shade.

2. Apply a lip bam to soften your lips.

3. Find the perfect shade of lipstick for your complexion.

4. Use a lip liner close to the color of your lipstick shade to line your lips into any shape and then apply your lipstick within the line.

5. Hot red and pink go well mostly for the light skinned ladies and orange red for dark skinned ladies.

If you have made the decision to step up into the make up game and yet don't want to waste money,then this is for you! There are a thousand and one kits used for make-uping but I'd emphasize on the very essential ones, not only are they important but they are also budget friendly...For the newbie, this is for you!!

Relationship is a very important part of the human specie as a social being. it's impossible to be in this part of life and not be in one kind of relationship or the other. what relationship means to man is more like what the sand means to the beach.
while there are different types of relationship, there's  one that is prevalent across all people regardless of culture,class, personality and the lot which is...dating. yes dating! and until after a "convo" i had with a  friend during the holls  made me realised two things; that just like i was hoodwinked about dating  a lot of peeps  out there are still stranded on that highland and also a reminder to put up this post(that i've longed postponed) with urgency to let people know that there will continue to be heartbreaks, unresolved past, bitter experiences and even not actualizing the aim of dating not because they don't have a good heart or bad people but because of ignorance. The bible puts it this way;

"My people are destroyed because they've refused knowledge"

Knowledge is the key here not on chemistry like falz and simi tells us or what the whole entertainment  industry portrays on their movies and songs. Your "know how" about a subject/situation gives you a better platform to plan putting into consideration the black and white part of it and your plan determines the success of your course. Dating is about plan, its about your readiness  are you ready?, do you know what you are in for? Below are 5 key ways to know  you are ready for dating.

-You are not ready to date until you are fully aware of both the benefit and the dangers of dating. Once you understand not only the perks but also the pitfalls of dating and top of the list of potential dating pitfalls is the danger of becoming physically and emotionally involved too quickly at too deep a level  leading to inappropriate behaviour then you are mature enough to begin opening yourself up to more serious relationship.

-You are not ready for dating until you've had a good understanding of God's standards for relationship. You need to learn or work out a clear set of guidelines of behaviours based on Gods word or you are not ready to date. Waiting until you are in a dating situation to decide whats right or wrong is too late. Unless u settle those matters in your heart and mind before hand, you will have little protection against temptation and could easily go to far. There are only 2 choices: either you will follow Gods standard by deliberate choice or you will follow follow the world standard by default.

-You are not ready to date when you "need" to date. If you feel that you need to date in order to be complete or fulfilled personally, you are not ready for dating. Need involves demand and it implies that there is something lacking in life. As long as you perceive lack within yourself every relationship you enter will be to one degree or another, an effort to supply that lack or bring a sense of completeness.

-You are not ready for dating until you've read at least five dating related books. We are in an age where there are ideas everywhere like never before given to us by great men and women who went through this phase that you are right now. Reading books about dating is like studying the manual of a new device it gives you an edge for enjoying your new gadget.

-You are not ready to date if you are not under mentorship. This follows closely on the heels of the previous readiness principle. Reading books is ok but what happens when you've got question? What happens when you need a one on one conversation? until there's someone with experience and visible  proof concerning dating to mentor and guide you stay away from dating.

Note: majority of the dating readiness principles can be found in the book Waiting and Dating by Myles Munroe i hope you go get yours.( i guess we can take this as a book review).

                         xoXox!

Keep the comment rolling in. what other dating principles could be of help // Name of dating related books you'd recommend? it will be awesome to read your views. cheers!

   

There are some classic items that every man should have in their wardrobe. These pieces never go out of fashion though sometimes understated but they help compliment other pieces in your wardrobe when put together. Below are the must - have wardrobe piece for men

Pair of blue jeans
A pair of jeans is a mans best friend with the distressed trend invoke currently, be sure to get a twist of style, a touch of "edginess" when paired rightly.



Black Suit
If you are looking to building a wardrobe where suits are a necessity, don't go experimenting with all sorts. Begin by acquiring a black suit. This is the most basic necessity in a mans wardrobe. Choose a single breasted one and spice it up with different colours of shirt. White still remain the safest and easiest colour of shirt to start with.


 Sneakers Every guy likes a pair of sneakers for those days when he wants to go hang out with friends. You'd feel relaxed and still look good. But these days sneakers are not just worn for casual outing, they also make formal occasion but a great trick to pull.




 A pair of shoes when you talk about the lace up shoes, what just comes to mind is the oxford and derby. The Oxford is the most formal type of men shoes. The difference between the derby and the oxford is in the lacing the derby is opened laced and the latter is closed.




Time Piece when it comes to accessories men aren't has deep has ladies. However , one of the few items they wear is the wristwatch. Therefore, invest in a classic, durable wristwatch in essence, since your jewellery is limited , let your wristwatch stand out and make a statement.



Khakis or Chinos A fitted pair of khaki pants is a versatile fashion must have for any well rounded wardrobe. Because they are usually neutral pants they go with just about any colour. In and out of season, white, black, Jewel tones generally work well with a pair of khaki pant.

Sheath and shift dress are awesome, i call them the all-rounder duo. they are easy to rock, chic , come in variety of fabrics, styles, a staple for all age its a must have piece in every ladies wardrobe and just like the Little black dress ( LBD ) and the cocktail they are for all seasons but which is the shift dress and which is the sheath? -Sometimes it stuns me when people "fashionista alike" mismatch the names of this dresses or when some ladies give me that blank stare when i be like " hey! i love your shift dress / you look awesome in that sheath dress " more than half of the time, the "dress" at end of the sentence gives them a clue of the "tongues" 'm speaking. So if you 've being in that category, stress no more let me save you the trouble of checking the "encyclopedia" lol and of cause as a jara for this favour you 'd see ways to look like a million bucks when you go rocking this "babies". Owk lets begin

The sheath. pop culture calls it the straight gown which most people sometimes also mistake for the body con dress (most body con are made from lycra or jersey fabric) is narrower compared to the shift with the bust and knee measurement being equal . This fashion piece is the favourite of the first lady of the US Mitchell Obama, Kate Middleton the duchess of Cambridge. what do i care?...




 now get that hating spirit from around you, if you on sheath sweetheart! you 're on that presidential et royal "swag" lol now who doesn't want to be treated like royalty or given that first lady salute? The sheath dress can be pulled off by literally all body types just like its counterpart but a "no - no" for ladies with larger midsection trust me you don't want to be looking like u lacking "protein" or you 're couple months pregnant when you ain't


 The shift is a kind of dress that becomes less fitted as it moves from the bust, hip down to somewhere around the knee and that's pretty much the length ( either the middle or top of the knee preferably) and because of the silhouette of the shift it is an escape route for tall girls to look short (and that's depending on the wideness of the shift i.e the wider it becomes the more effective the illusion effect),




 for oval shaped ladies (when your bust is larger than the rest of the body) - it also produces an overall balance and also if you've got the kim kay mercy johnson kinda body (abeg leme rep my niger girls on here) and you don't wanna look like you flaunting your asset nor causing "trouble" its a perfect hide out lol


 
 Amazingly both dresses can be used for all occasion but the key is;

- know what works for you i.e your body type should be a determinant of which to go for

Before you start saying stuff like " oh you're not just into fashion huh? you 're a medical practitioner too or "dude are you related to Ben Carson now ? ", this whole "sermon" right here sprang up from a personal experience,  a very not "cool" one which propelled me to make research and i'm honored to share it here with the sole aim of breaking the " i didn't know" wall of excuse and also for more enlightenment  if possible and not because i'm a geek per say but hey!! if this  makes me one, please cut me some slacks then let me be geeky for once lol.

Pile as many people would think  "including me until now" was for a certain kind of people but it range from all sexuality, age - from kids to grown up, all gender and class of people - with the likes of former U.S. President Jimmy Carter, Hall of Fame baseball player George Brett and  of cause the last but not the least me (how did i even find myself here? ) .Thank your stars you won't be found here and if you ever will or ever was at least! you on safe ground now after this.

Pile also known as hemorrhoids are swellings containing enlarged blood vessels found inside or around the rectum and anus. They can be either internal or external hemorrhoids. While it is difficult to see or know you have an internal hemorrhoid unless they become prolapsed – that is poking out through the anus, the external  piles  occurs outside and around the anal opening (that can be easily seen).
In many cases, hemorrhoids don't cause symptoms and some people don't even realise they have them but in most cases, the typical symptom is rectal pain. However, when symptoms do occur, they may include:

-Itchiness around the anus

-Swelling and tender lumps in the anal region

- In cases of internal piles where the inflammation or lump is not visible the piles may move on to the outside, called a prolapsed, during the passage of stools and may need to be pushed back in

-severe pain while sitting down and walking

-The presence of blood in the stool or on tissue paper, and possible bleeding after passage of a stool - the blood is usually bright red

What causes hemorrhoids?
The exact cause of hemorrhoids is unclear, but they're associated with increased pressure in the blood vessels in and around your anus. This pressure can cause the blood vessels in your back passage to become swollen and inflamed. Some of the possible factors that can increase your vulnerability are;

-being overweight or obese

-as you age, your body's supporting tissues get weaker, increasing your risk of hemorrhoids

-being pregnant – this can place increased pressure on your pelvic blood vessels, causing them to enlarge

-having a family history of hemorrhoids

-regularly lifting heavy objects; basically hard labour

-a persistent cough or repeated vomiting

-sitting down for long periods of time

-prolonged constipation which causes straining in the toilet and this is as a result of low fibre content diet

-Chronic (long-term) diarrhoea can also make you more vulnerable to getting hemorrhoids.

-anal intercourse

- low consumption of water

Preventing and treating hemorrhoids

You can prevent piles by:

-gradually increasing the amount of fibre in your diet – good sources of fibre include fruit, vegetables, wholegrain rice, wholewheat pasta and bread, pulses and beans, seeds, nuts and oats

-drinking plenty of fluid – particularly water, but avoiding or cutting down on caffeine and alcohol

-ignoring the urge to empty your bowels can make your stools harder and drier, which can lead to straining when you do go to the toilet

-avoiding medication that causes constipation –such as painkillers that contain codeine

-losing weight if you're overweight
exercising regularly – this can help prevent constipation, reduce your blood pressure, and help you lose weight

Haemorrhoid symptoms often settle down after a few days without needing treatment but if other wise

-Use medications like corticosteroid creams or ointments that are available over-the-counter. Corticosteroid pads that you place on the affected area can also help with the swelling and pain. Special hemorrhoid creams that contain lidocaine can help reduce the pain

-Wear cotton underwear that prevents excessive perspiration and allows the skin to breathe

-Do not use rough toilet sheet that can damage sensitive skin

See your Doctor if the symptoms of hemorrhoids persist or becomes severe

Ok that's pretty how much i could dig up from my little research i hope its helpful somehow, somewhere but before anything else....

Have you been a victim of hemorrhoid ? How did it go/ did you go about it?, what other ways can we prevent/treat it? and of cause why do you think people shy away in letting people even their doctors know about it?
Keep the comment rolling in, i anticipate in excitement.

                     xoXox!